The Most Expansive Option
I love the feeling of thinking and being expansive. I will often ask the question, which is the more expansive option? Expansive suggests love in action going out into the world. Naturally permeating limits, beyond the comfort zone. Ripples in water after the stone's thrown.
To be clear, I'm not talking about consuming, accumulating volume or over extending yourself. When you are in expansive mode, it is not so much the actions you will take that will be different (although they might). It is more your intention or mindset that changes. Rather than focusing on preserving the status quo, keeping safe, proving your worth and avoiding the things you fear, you are playing with possibilities, doing what you love and expressing your unique passions in the world.
You do not worry about what others think or concern yourself with pleasing them, you keep experimenting until you find your tribe, your fans who 'love you just the way you are'. When you are in relationship with and serve these people, your energy increases, it multiples and expands.
You do not struggle. Struggle suggests you have stepped out of your flow and into the territory of fear. Let go of your story about how things need to be. Re-focus on what is important, take a different perspective and get creative with your solutions.
Self-Employment is often an expansive option for your career and lifestyle. It can enable you to express yourself fully in the world, to engage all your passions and to have the flexibility to nurture yourself and your family. Unfortunately it is also possible to approach the transition with so much fear that the life you create does not match your expansive potential.
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